Dear Thelma: my better half is addicted to online sites that are dating

Dear Thelma: my better half is addicted to online sites that are dating

Dear Thelma

I’m 37 years old and now have been married for decade. My better half is years that are many than me personally. We now have an eight-year-old child.

I knew that he was active on online dating sites and was chatting with numerous girls when I met my husband. But he promised he’d stop if we got hitched. I happened to be OK with this.

But 12 months into our wedding, we realised he had been much more earnestly communicating with girls and sharing images. Him about it, he said he was just chatting and not meeting these women personally, so why was I making a big fuss when I found out and confronted. He was told by me i would not tolerate that, in which he once again promised to avoid.

All ended up being well until recently, once I discovered out he’s got been at it once more. Now, he could be telling these ladies which he has a child girl who he really loves really but that he’s divided from their spouse. In addition learned I think are weird porn sites that he has been visiting what.

I have quit hope I can’t take it any longer that he will ever stop and. I understand for a lot of, it could look like a harmless thing. They might ask why i’m overreacting. But the method he writes to the one woman on the internet and how he could be often therefore cool towards me in the home makes me wonder in the event that only reason he could be staying with me personally is merely in the interests of being hitched as well as for you to definitely care for him as well as the household.

We scarcely talk any longer and then he states he is constantly busy. I just don’t recognize who else to speak with relating to this.

Please Thelma, help me to. Have always been I really overreacting? – Hema

Dear Hema

The guy you married is telling individuals you’re from the photo in which he has got the barefaced cheek to lie about this. […]